Whether fight is bad for relationship or not 另外我是站在反方,也就是认为fight is not bad for relationship的,求一个三分钟左右的发言稿,

Whether fight is bad for relationship or not 另外我是站在反方,也就是认为fight is not bad for relationship的,求一个三分钟左右的发言稿,
Whether fight is bad for relationship or not
另外我是站在反方,也就是认为fight is not bad for relationship的,求一个三分钟左右的发言稿,

Whether fight is bad for relationship or not 另外我是站在反方,也就是认为fight is not bad for relationship的,求一个三分钟左右的发言稿,
争吵是否会损害人际关系?fight 不仅仅是打架的意思.
Hello,everyone. Today's topic is "Whether fight is bad for relationship or not". There has always been a debate over whether fight is bad for relationship or not. We( I ) personally think that fight is not bad for relationships and furthermore, it can even help us make our relation work better.
Firstly, regard of family relationship, normal fights certainly won't do any harm to the family. According to a recent research carried out by British Human Emotion Analysis ( BHE for short ) , participated by over 1000 families around the world, regular but not annoyingly regular fights within families are commonly thought as "normal", "OK", "understandable" or even "essential". 93% of people don't think that fights are seriously affecting their family relationships in a bad way. A lot of couples also said that fights provide them a chance to express themselves to each other and say the things which they don't normally have a chance to say, therefore, it makes them to understnd each other even better. From that point, we can clearly see that normal families fights won't cause too much effect on family relationship.
Secondly, when we are talking about "figthts", we don't mean abusing, swearing, voilence or literally fighting with real fists. In this concept, the term "fight" refers to "arguement", not "brawl". We fight through language, but not body, and that's what distinguishes us from animals. Through the long process of evolutio, we learned to fight with words, and that is a remarkable breakthough of human civilisation. We are given the right to fight when it's appropriate, so why not use it? We only fight because it is, or at least we think it is, necessary. Otherwise we would have choosen another way to solve the problem more peacefully. So basically, we fight because we have to, not because we like to. There is nothing wrong about fight, it is just a way of solving problems when there isn't any other available path.
The same idea applies to the fights with other people in our lives, fights with friends, fights with boy or girl friends, fights with colleagues. Some people may say that too much argueing make their relationship with other people worse. Wow, hold on a second. Do the fight itself destroyed your relationships with the others, or you just can't get on well with some people because of the difference in your personalities and perceptions? It's not the fight that worsen people's relationships, it's the fact that people ignored the problems in their relationship or noticed but refused to solve them and make their relationships work. If you think you are really working hard on your relationship, then you certainly won't argue so much that you need to stay away with each other. More importantly, fight is a good indicator showing that there is a problem in our relationships with the others. Once we find out what problems are, then we can attempt to deal with it or relise that some people are not meant to be with each other. There wouldn't be a solution without fighting it through.
As a conclusion, I believe that everyone has the right to fight and fight won't harm our relationships with the others. We can even benefit from it if we are willing to recognise the problems behind the fight. My speach is finished, thank you for listening.

打架是否会损害人际关系？
观点
Firstly fight is benefit to clear up the misunderstandings so that it can smooth individuals' relationship.
The second aspect related to this issue is that particular for m...

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打架是否会损害人际关系？
观点
Firstly fight is benefit to clear up the misunderstandings so that it can smooth individuals' relationship.
The second aspect related to this issue is that particular for male, fight is an expression of friendship.
Last but not the least, fight is a way to release people's pressure.

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