下面这篇文章的中文意思One day,I heard an American boy say to a Chinese student of English,"You speak very good English."But the student answered,"No,no.My English is very poor."The foreigner was quite surprised at the answer,Thinking he ha

下面这篇文章的中文意思One day,I heard an American boy say to a Chinese student of English,"You speak very good English."But the student answered,"No,no.My English is very poor."The foreigner was quite surprised at the answer,Thinking he ha
下面这篇文章的中文意思
One day,I heard an American boy say to a Chinese student of English,"You speak very good English."But the student answered,"No,no.My English is very poor."The foreigner was quite surprised at the answer,Thinking he had not made himself understood or the Chinese student had not heard him clearly,he said,"Yes,indeed,you speak very well."But the Chinese student still kept saying,"No."In the end the American boy could not understand and didn't know what to say.
What's wrong with the student's answer?He didn't accept a compliment（赞美词）in the same way as the American people do.He should answer,"Thank you."instead of "No".He really understood what the American boy had said,but he thought he should be modest（谦虚）.In the west,people will feel proud and confident when they are praised（赞美）.So if someone says the dishes you have cooked are very delicious,you should say"Thanks."If someone says to a woman "You look so beautiful with the new clothes on."She must be very happy and answer "Thanks."
In our country we think being modest is a virtue（美德）and being proud is a bad thing,but in my opinion,being confident doesn't mean being proud,so sometimes you should be confident instead of being modest.
If you are modest and say,"No,I'm afraid I can't do it well."while working in a western country,the others may think that you really can't do it.If you often say "No."you will certainly be looked down upon by others.If asking for a job,one says something like "Yes,I can certainly do it"instead of "Let me have a try,"he or she will expect to get it.So in the West,you should be brave to show yourself-confident!的中文意思

下面这篇文章的中文意思One day,I heard an American boy say to a Chinese student of English,"You speak very good English."But the student answered,"No,no.My English is very poor."The foreigner was quite surprised at the answer,Thinking he ha
有一天,我听到一位美国男孩说,中国学生的英语”,你的英语说得不错."但是学生回答说:“不,不我的英语很差."外国人很惊讶,他的答案不是自己的理解和中国学生没有听得很清楚,他说,“是的,你说得很好.”但是中国学生还是一直说:“没有.”最后美国孩子听不懂,不知道说什么才好.
什么是错误的,与学生的答案吗他不接受别人的赞美(赞美词)在同样的方式为美国人做…他回答说:”而不是“不”他真的明白美国男孩曾经说过,但他认为他应该谦虚(谦虚)在西方,人们会感到骄傲、自信时,他们正称赞(赞美)所以如果有人说你已经煮菜都很好吃,你应该说“谢谢”.如果有人说一个女人说:“你看起来很漂亮的新衣服上的.”她一定很高兴,回答:”
在我国,我们认为是谦虚是一种美德,美德)和自豪.(是一件坏事,但是在我看来,自信并不意味着自豪,所以有时你必须自信而不是很谦虚.
如果你很谦虚,然后说:“不,我恐怕不能做到最好.”的工作,而在西方国家,别人会认为你真的不能做…如果你经常说“不”.你一定会被人瞧不起如果要求一个工作,你说,“是的,我一定能做到”代替“让我试一试,”他或她指望得到它所以在西方国家,你应该勇敢地展示你的自信