英语翻译When Stephen Geyser’s three children were growing up,he told them stories about bow his grandfather,a banker,lost all in the 1930s,but did not lose sight of what he valued most.In one of the darkest times when his strong-minded grandfat

英语翻译When Stephen Geyser’s three children were growing up,he told them stories about bow his grandfather,a banker,lost all in the 1930s,but did not lose sight of what he valued most.In one of the darkest times when his strong-minded grandfat
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When Stephen Geyser’s three children were growing up,he told them stories about bow his grandfather,a banker,lost all in the 1930s,but did not lose sight of what he valued most.In one of the darkest times when his strong-minded grandfather was nearly penniless,he loaded his family into the car and took them to see family members in Canada with a belief,“There are more important things in life than money.”The tale took on a new meaning recently when Mr.Guyer downsized to a small house from a more expensive and comfortable one.He was worried that his children ,a daughter,15,and twins,22,would be upset.To his surprise,they weren’t Instead,their reaction echoed （共鸣） their great-grandfather’s.What they cared about was how warm the people were in the house and how much of their heart was accessible.Many parents are finding family stories have surprising power to help children through hard times.Storytelling expects say the phenomenon reflects a growing interest in telling tales,evidenced by a rise in a storytelling events and festivals.A university study of 65 families with children aged from 14 to 16 found kids’ ability to retell parents’ stories was linked to a lower rate of anger and anxiety.The trick is telling the stories in a way children can hear.We’re not talking here about the kind of story that begins,“When I was a kid,I walked to school every day uphill both ways,barefoot in the snow.” Instead,we should choose a story suited to the child’s needs,and make eye contact（接触） to create “a personal experience”,We don’t have to tell children what they should take from the story and what the moral is.

英语翻译When Stephen Geyser’s three children were growing up,he told them stories about bow his grandfather,a banker,lost all in the 1930s,but did not lose sight of what he valued most.In one of the darkest times when his strong-minded grandfat
当斯蒂芬 盖泽尔家的三个孩子都长大了,他告诉孩子们关于他的祖父,一个银行家的故事.他在20世纪30年代,失去了所有,但并没有忽视他最珍视.最黑暗时期中的一次,意志坚强的祖父几乎身无分文,他将他的家人带上车,怀着信念去见加拿大的亲戚, “在生活中,还有比金钱更重要的事情. ”这个故事最近有了新的含义,盖泽尔先生从一所昂贵舒适的房子迁到一所小房子.他担心他的孩子们,一个15岁的女儿和一对22岁的双胞胎,会感到失望.出乎他的意料,他们却没有如此,他们的反应和他们的曾祖父引起共鸣（如出一辙）.他们关心的是在房子里人们是多么的温暖,他们的心多么的容易交接.很多父母发现,家族故事具有神奇的力量,来帮助孩子渡过难关.讲故事专家说,这种现象反映出了在讲故事上的兴趣增长,这被讲故事的活动和节日的增长所印证.一所大学关于65个家庭14岁至16岁孩子的研究表明,孩子复述父母故事的能力与较低的愤怒和焦躁有关.这个技巧是要用孩子能听进去的方式讲故事.我们这里指的不是以“当我还是个孩子的时候,我每天都要走路去学校 还有爬坡 冬天赤脚在大雪里行走”这种开头的故事.相反的我们应该选择一种投其所好的故事 跟他们进行眼神的交流,从而创造出一种使他们觉得像是亲身经历一样的感觉.我们并不需要告诉孩子们他们必须从故事中学到什么或者是这个故事有什么寓意.

我的口吃一直是一个很大的问题。我会为我的演讲，多年来有很多的专家。当我走下走廊遇到新的人出现在我的头上，记忆如何被一个孩子口吃的痛苦了。它还疼。您好。我太太克劳森。我听说你是从德克萨斯来的！”“你们你们你们是m-m-m-m-m-m-m-aam我……”我感到心脏跳动的通过我的胸部和我的手湿淋淋的。我真的搞砸了的介绍。“好吧，”她说，带着微笑。“我一直很喜欢德克萨斯。”她原来是我曾经最好的演讲专家，不...

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我的口吃一直是一个很大的问题。我会为我的演讲，多年来有很多的专家。当我走下走廊遇到新的人出现在我的头上，记忆如何被一个孩子口吃的痛苦了。它还疼。您好。我太太克劳森。我听说你是从德克萨斯来的！”“你们你们你们是m-m-m-m-m-m-m-aam我……”我感到心脏跳动的通过我的胸部和我的手湿淋淋的。我真的搞砸了的介绍。“好吧，”她说，带着微笑。“我一直很喜欢德克萨斯。”她原来是我曾经最好的演讲专家，不喜欢那些让我拍我的手，说。她是不同的。她花了前几周刚刚和我说话，问我各种各样的问题自己，尤其是我的感受。她听了。然后她开始给我讲讲话。不只是我的言语，而是所有人。我唱我的老学校，是一个相当不错的男高音，但我知道新学校的歌唱组满了。这是坏消息，因为我认为我真的可以做的很好的一件事，我可以不间断地做。不知何故我太太克劳森终于在组。我觉得她真的关心我的人，不只是一个演讲的学生。在接下来的两年里，我的演讲没有得到更好的——除了她。我在大学的时候，事情变得更糟。有一次我甚至不知道我是否能沟通！这是一个非常令人沮丧的时候，我常常感到孤独。当我感觉自己真的很抱歉，我记得夫人克劳森曾告诉我是否我可以改变我的演讲总是由我来。她告诉我不完美的话语权，只是更好的演讲。她是对的。最后我改进我的讲话大大。许多年过去了，但我想她，想她在她的其他同学一样，她对我有很大的影响。我想她。她的名字是克劳森女士…她关心。我永远不会忘记她。

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